Alright so on some realness, I'm sooo damn tired of new moms! yeaup i said, I'm really aggravated with their lack of self placement in this world. I'm sorry but seriously stop coddling your kids, you're not the only one they'll ever need in their lives. you're still a great mom even if you're not still "breast feeding" til' they're 4. And you know what if they have a good time with someone else holding them or playing with them, please don't throw yourself out of the damn window! yet again I reiterate, NOT THE ONLY ONE! what pisses me off even more is when moms act like they impregnated themselves. Cuz clearly women produce the sperm and the egg. I'm not insensitive, I am aware of the fact that there is 9 months worth of bond-ation (yes thats right) that takes place. and even more with breast feeding but um really lets not get carried away. I have witnessed on many occasions, moms disregarding the baby's father because they feel like they just have no clue as to what is going. and of coarse the whole notion that "mom's know best". FUCK UP, it's not always knowing best, it's "knowing" that you feel like the man doesn't do it like you, so they are inadequate. believe me you don't have to say those words cuz basically you're saying it in your actions. The funny part is, then women complain like the man isn't around or doesn't help out enough. Maybe if you quit your damn bitching, maybe he will. Stop being a neurotic ass and lighten the fuck up! you're gonna be doing everyone a big service, even yourself. I see moms that come into my shop with their newborns, completely not paying attention to their babies. The second that their babies start laughing and smiling with me or anybody else all of a sudden there they are like sharks and all of their energy is now focused on mom yet again. Like seriously mom it kills you that much that your kid could have a good time with anybody else? WHAT THE HELL IS GONNA HAPPEN WHEN THEY GO THROUGH THE "I HATE YOU, YOU WORTHLESS PIECE OF SHIT" MODE? I'm just saying, cut the umbilical chord, cool it down. stop with this whole putting your baby on a damn pedestal. Remember the love for your baby should not replace the love for their dad, they are two separate loves. I'm telling you, it's not rocket science, love your baby regardless be a loving parent hell yea, be proud, but don't get crazy! you're gonna piss a lot of people off, maybe even your kid in the future. I'm just saying (A) remember you didn't create motherhood, so cut it out! (B) you WILL NOT and SHOULD NOT be the only relationship in the babies life, so cut it out! (C) if yo baby daddy is a decent guy, then let him parent too, YOU'RE NOT THE ONLY ONE, so cut it out! (D) learn to cut the umbilical chord with the coddling, it's only gonna hurt you more as they get older, so cut it out!!!! and (E) keep it healthy, not obsessive!, CUT IT THE FUCK OUT!
Okay bye!!!
eLLe*
Well Elle...this is a good topic! I agree with what you're saying indeed. Seems like if mom's will just let go a little bit, it would only help themselves in the long run. I think that in allowing their babies to experience other people (of all ages) will only teach their children to grow up and be more social instead of hiding behind their leg all the time when someone says hello....eh who knows. I think you're right, most of us go through that "I hate you mom" stage, some last more than others BUT, I think that in...as you say "cutting the umbilical chord" it will cut down the chance of you going through that stage. Hm...one can only dream of finding new moms who don't act like they invented motherhood. Good writing Elle, I look forward to reading more of what you have to say.
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